“In the same way, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. And all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. (1 Peter 5:5 NET).
“Pride” is a word that carries a positive or negative connotation depending on its context. For instance, “pride” may refer to the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction that accompanies a job well done. However, the destructive form of pride referenced here involves those who possess an inflated self-opinion or those who look down upon others, often with contempt. This form of pride may also reflect the egotistical bragging and empty bravado that characterizes a sense of arrogance, self-importance, and condescension.
The Amplified Bible offers an instructive and revealing translation of this passage…
“For God sets Himself against the proud (the insolent, the overbearing, the disdainful, the presumptuous, the boastful)—[and He opposes, frustrates, and defeats them], but gives grace (favor, blessing) to the humble.”
People often have a negative view of those who exhibit these characteristics because they are frequently perceived as dismissive, patronizing, or condescending. But the insight given to us here in 1 Peter 5:5 is even more disconcerting, for we are told that God resists (CSB), or opposes (ESV) the proud. Proverbs 3:34 and James 4:6 offer similar warnings. Therefore, it is extremely unwise to adopt an attitude that sets us in opposition to God Himself.
Since pride reflects a presumptuous sense of self-worth, it is diametrically opposed to God’s grace. For instance, Proverbs 25:27 tells us: “Just as it is harmful to eat too much honey, so also it is bad for men to think about all the honors they deserve!” (TLB). In addition to that passage, the Biblical books of Psalms and Proverbs have more to say regarding this characteristic…
“Pride leads to arguments; be humble, take advice, and become wise” (Proverbs 13:10 TLB).
“Everyone proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord; Though they join forces, none will go unpunished” (Proverbs 16:5).
“I will not tolerate anyone who secretly slanders his neighbors; I will not permit conceit and pride” (Psalms 101:5 TLB).
Another expression of pride also appears in a Biblical list of seven things God hates…
“These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him: A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil, A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows discord among brethren” (Proverbs 6:16-19).
In light of these admonitions, we should be diligent to guard against this destructive characteristic.