“to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness” (2 Peter 1:6).
Our next entry in this list of virtuous characteristics from 2 Peter 1:5-7 is self-control. Self-control involves the ability to manage our emotions or physical appetites instead of allowing those things to dictate our behaviors. Those who possess the God-given quality of self-control are less likely to suffer the negative repercussions that often follow a loss of composure.
From an external perspective, this might relate to a prayerful and conscious refusal to act on an inappropriate desire. It might also include a commitment to honor God with grace and poise when responding to careless remarks, insensitive comments, or deliberate provocations. From an internal perspective, self-control might involve relying on God’s empowerment to exercise discipline over unhealthy emotions like worry, fear, or anxiety.
Another way to exhibit self-control is by practicing discretion in our interactions with others, particularly when expressing our opinions or viewpoints. In contrast to those who share their views in an impulsive, indiscriminate, or undisciplined manner, we should reflect on the potential impact of our words before we post or convey them in a way that we may later regret.
While self-control is a representative quality of God’s Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), the importance of this characteristic is emphasized in the Old Testament book of Proverbs as well. For instance…
“He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, And he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city” (Proverbs 16:32).
“Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls” (Proverbs 25:28).
“A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back” (Proverbs 29:11).
One author combines these ideas in a unified manner…
“In Peter’s day, self-control was used of athletes who were to be self-restrained and self-disciplined. Thus, a Christian is to control the flesh, the passions, and the bodily desires, rather than allowing himself to be controlled by them (cf. 1Co 9:27 Gal 5:23). Moral excellence, guided by knowledge, disciplines desire and makes it the servant, not the master, of one’s life.” (1)
Finally, the Scriptures tell us that a lack of self control will be a characteristic of the end times (2 Timothy 3:2-5). Thus, we should seek to grow in our knowledge of God’s Word and follow the exhortation of Romans 12:2…
“…do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”
(1) John F. MacArthur Jr., The MacArthur Study Bible: New American Standard Bible. (Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 2006), 2 Pe 1:6.